My Inability to Write on the Good Girl Mentality

Writing about good girl mentality means writing honestly about the destruction of self, drowning under that loss of self, and then breaking free, kicking upward to the surface only to have to destroy more before rebuilding. It means writing with no walls or masks and no pretenses.

Antiracism is not racism

Antiracism also honors the intent of King’s hope for his kids “not to be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character” by asking for people to see and value them by honoring the reality of their experience, heritage, history, and culture. Antiracism says “don’t judge us based on color” and allows them to exist by asking us to embrace their full humanity. That’s when they can truly be seen for who they are, all of who they are. And that’s the work of antiracism, and I think perfectly aligned with King’s goal.